Wedding
Asking a friend who lives far away to be your bridesmaid
No box to post: she opens a link, drags the seal off a file, reads your ask with your photos inside, and taps YES - and her answer reaches you in seconds. Free to build; €3 to send one.
No account needed to start
Write it your way
Write every line yourself, or let the AI writing helper draft one for you.
€3 once to send
Building and previewing are free. Sending costs €3 one-time - 3 for €5, 10 for €10 - and never renews.
One private link
They open it in any browser on any phone. Nothing to install, no account for them.
Live demo
It replaces the proposal box that would spend two weeks in the post - she gets the ask tonight and you get the answer the same evening.
- Live since 2025
- 38 formats
- 6 languages
4.9/5 from early users
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This is what they get
What to write to a friend three time zones away
“Two countries, one terrible video-call connection, still my person. Will you be my bridesmaid? Say yes and we will work out the flights later.”
“I have wanted to ask you this in person for four months, and every time we plan a visit something moves. So I am asking from here instead: I am getting married, and I want you standing next to me, jet lag and all. Nothing about that changes because you live far away.”
“I am getting married on [date]. I know the travel is not simple, so answer honestly and take your time - I would still rather ask you and hear no than not ask you at all.”
How it works
What they will see
- Drags the seal off a top-secret file and the dossier opens.
- Reads your ask and your note, flips four case cards, sees your photos.
- Taps YES, “let me think” or “I can’t” — the answer is sent to you.
Pick the format and fill it in
Names, your message, and the details this format uses - a date, a place, wishes or a few photos. No account needed to start.
Preview it as they will see it
The live preview runs the real page: opening ritual, reveal, and the closing question. Building and previewing is free.
Send the link
Sending one giftable costs €3 (3 for €5, 10 for €10). It opens in any browser with no app, and their answer comes back to your dashboard.
Frequently asked questions
Every bridesmaid proposal idea I find is a box I would have to ship. What do I do at this distance?
Send the moment instead of the object. A proposal box costs postage, arrives flattened, and takes a week or two to reach another country; this arrives now, in the chat you already use, and she opens it while you are awake enough to see the reply. Post the ribbon and the robe later if you want them - the ask does not have to wait for a courier.
How will I know she opened it, and where does her answer go?
Her verdict - YES, "let me think" or "I can't" - is saved as a reply on your giftable, and we email you about the first replies, so a yes sent at 3am her time is waiting for you when you wake up. You can also replace those three with up to five questions of your own, including free text for the weeks she could actually travel.
Do I need photos, and does she have to install anything?
Photos are optional: add up to six pictures or short clips and they pin into the file as evidence, or add none and the format uses its own drawn scenes. She installs nothing and creates no account - she opens the link in the browser on her phone, and one tap opens the file if dragging the seal is awkward. Building is free; sending one giftable costs €3.
Made to feel personal
More like opening a gift. Less like reading an e-card.
Your real memories
Photos and words from your relationship, arranged as a small story.
A moment of discovery
Scratch, tap, and swipe interactions slow the moment down in a good way.
Their answer comes back
Their answer to the closing question lands in your dashboard.
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Ready when you are
Make the message feel like a moment.
Start with the photos already on your phone. You can edit every word before anything is sent.
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